"Before working with Eimear, I found dating quite tiring and a bit hopeless. Finding someone I connect with is very important to me. There are also so many ‘rules’ around dating, and sentiments of ‘you must act a certain way to get your man.’ I don’t like any of this stuff!
What I liked most about Kindling was that Eimear encourages you to really get in touch with yourself, and to have the confidence to be yourself. That’s the version of you someone will love.
She’s also helped me be more intentional with dating – I could often waste time not actually getting on dates, then complaining I wasn’t getting anywhere. But really, when you have more focus and intention, and know how to do this, you waste less time and have more fun.
It’s also helped me try some different things when it comes to dating, look at dating profiles differently, and be more confident in communicating.
The programme was also fun and vibrant, with a great supportive community. Highly recommend."
“I came to Kindling Dating just following a very hard break up yet I was keen to meet someone meaningful in my life. I’ve got so much to share with someone who is right for me, yet I was really feeling resistant as I had been hurt and I felt that my dating fingers had been burnt.
This is where Kindling comes into it…I signed up to the 6 week course and after working my way through the modules and with the weekly check-ins with Eimear, she picked me off the floor and there I was back out on the dating scene feeling fabulous! Great news is that I met someone!
If you’re needing a bit of support to break dating patterns or advice on how to get out there, then don’t waste any more time mindlessly swiping left, do the Kindling course and get happy!
“When I was introduced to Kindling - I had not been involved with any form of dating for many years .
I took part in a 6 week course run by Eimear . This was fascinating and Eimear was always so enthusiastic and the course was great fun .
Eimear has always been very helpful and encouraged us to use the dating apps and to get out and about and be open to meeting people .
She has definitely been instrumental in getting me back on the dating scene .
I can highly recommend.”
“I wasn’t a great fan of dating. Being neurodivergent not only do I find dating stressful but there is a lot of dating etiquette I don’t really get!!
What I most loved about Kindling was how friendly and open it was to talk about your experiences. I loved it!
What I loved most was the questions posed in the sessions. It really helped me think about dating in a different way and I left with tactics that helped me navigate the dating world in a less stressful way!
It definitely helped me be more relaxed about the process to take the pressure off.
And a few weeks after I finished the course, I met my now girlfriend which I never expected to happen!
I was quite sceptical at the beginning as a non dater, but Kindling really helped open my mind to different ways of approaching dating!”
"Eimear was super patient and took time to really get to know me over the duration of the course.
I was at a stage of my life where I had given up hope, however, working together she helped me get to a point where I was truly ready to date and stopped constantly looking for it like I had previously.
I was content in where I was in life and had learnt how to set boundaries.
5 months after I had completed the program, I met my fiance whilst on holiday and am getting married later this year.
Eimear helped me to let go of my expectations and remove the anxiety that I associated with dating.
"I first heard about Eimear and Kindling on the soul sisters podcast. It was something she said about telling yourself you are happy being single that really resonated with me. It was a story I was telling myself so I didn’t have to make the effort to date.
The whole course felt like such a safe space to share experiences. By talking about it, it made it feel like we were all in it together. I loved the weekly sessions and having so many amazing women rooting for you. The weekly sessions felt like I should take action & be accountable every week. This really helped kick start the whole dating thing for me. If I didn’t have this I would have put it all off because I felt like it would too hard. I had been single for so long I wasn’t sure if I could date again!!
The journaling sessions each week also really helped me understand what I was looking for in a relationship & build confidence to go for what I really deserve. Don’t overthink it became a motto for me!
I was really anti using the dating apps, hoping dates would just happen. But Eimear really encouraged us to just join and not over think swiping and going on pre dates (not even a first date, just a quick get to know you kind of date).
I’m still dating the person I met during the course from a dating app. It’s been so nice to getting to know him, but from a much more ‘aware’ of myself and aware of dating place. I communicate so much better but I also am really trying to just date in the moment and not get overly attached to the outcome. It’s been so positive and I know that even if this doesn’t work out, I’ve gained so much confidence to just date again.
There are so many good things to say about the course and so many nuggets of wisdom along the way."
"I felt the sessions with Eimear helped in a number of ways; firstly, the exercises we did helped me become more mindful of what I offer and they were done in an order that was logical and helped build my confidence and focus week-to-week.
They also helped me put things into perspective (bad dates are not the end of the world, but merely a learning experience!).
I met others who were looking for the same guidance and I realised it is quite normal to sometimes need a gentle push in the right direction. I would thoroughly recommend. "
"I really enjoyed the Kindling sessions which were encouraging, fun and very supportive in getting me to pluck up the courage to date online.
I met my wonderful boyfriend on tinder while doing the course.
I would highly recommend this program as it really builds you up, to get out there to find love.
Thank you Eimear, you are great at what you do and so personable! I felt a great support from you throughout the program. 💕 "
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